I'd rather be right than happy

Have you ever met someone who believed in something so strongly that they would not budge in that belief? Perhaps it had to do with their stand on a family matter or on an investment they had made. While the events of the world around the said otherwise, they were not willing to let go of their position even though it meant that they felt miserable most of the time. In relationships we typically refer to this as holding a grudge. A grudge can linger on for years. One or both persons believe that they are right and will not let go of that decision. There are cases where years later the so-called offended person couldn't recall the event that sparked the grudge, but only remembers that it is important to maintain it even at the expense of their own well-being. Think of the amount of energy expended in holding on to those thoughts and feelings. They are willing to take being right over being happy to the grave. This is where a heavy dose of forgiveness is recommended. We forgive so that we can move on with our lives and experience the good that it has to offer. Perhaps if the situation was appropriately dealt with when it occurred, there would be no need for grudges. Are there any circumstances in your life today in which you would rather be right than happy and what price are you paying for that position?