Closure

We have all probably experienced situations in our lives that didn’t end the way we wanted them to end. It may have been a romantic relationship that suddenly stopped on one side or a family situation that changed without warning. It most likely left you wondering what happened. Closure allows us to leave the situation knowing what occurred. We can move on with our lives and close that chapter. When closure is lacking we are missing that information and are left creating possible reasons for what happened. Did your romantic partner find someone new? Did he or she become bored or dissatisfied with the relationship? Was there something missing to begin with that contributed to the demise of the relationship? This self questioning can continue indefinitely. It is at this time that you have to accept that you may never learn what happened and let go of the uncertainty and its effect in your life. Express gratitude for what was and prepare to move on to experience the joy that awaits you. This was but one step in your journey bringing you to where you are today. How you interpret that empowers you to move on. What event from your past would benefit from having closure?