Give and take

Life is a series of activities involving give and take. In our early years we are takers in order to survive. We are dependent on others for our basic needs. We are fed, clothed, and sheltered by our caretakers until the time comes when we are capable of doing this for ourselves. Yet even at such an early age we are givers. We give joy to our parents as they watch us develop. What parent doesn't recall the first words that are spoken or the moment that a child stands and takes those initial steps? There are those moments when a child is mesmerized by the presence of a puppy or the first encounter with snow. We learn to give to and take love from others. This includes behaviors that demonstrate respect, care, and nurturing. As time passes the flow between giving and taking takes place as needs are identified and addressed. Does it always occur flawlessly? That may be the goal to which we as the human race would hope to aspire. It is more likely to be present when we recognize the interdependence that exists between each of us. Where are you today in living a life of interdependence?