Lessons of life

We are reminded that, what we do not learn from our past, we are destined to repeat in the future. These are what we commonly refer to as patterns. They are the behaviors that are repeated even when we know what previous negative outcomes have been. We continue to choose the same type of romantic partner who demonstrates little respect and may even be abusive. We continue to accept low-paying jobs or ones that offer no potential for growth. We make financial investments that result in loss of income. Our hope is that this time it will be different, and it only reinforces the negative pattern. It is up to each of us to recognize that we deserve so much better in life and that ending these unproductive behaviors is the first step in doing so. Your lesson in life may be that you first become your own best friend before expecting someone else to fulfill you as a person. You acknowledge your work skills and experience and seek jobs that support them. You do your due diligence before making an investment. These are the lessons in life that guide us to where we are meant to be - happy, joyous, and free. What is a pattern you see in your life today that can serve as a lesson towards having a happier life tomorrow?